“When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid”.
Audre Lorde, American writer and activist, 1934-1992.
Responsibility is the Key to deep and satisfying change. Responsibility is a key to expanding your belief that you are in fact the creator of your experience at any given moment.
The amount of responsibility that you accept is the exact amount of creative ability that you utilise for your experience.
To be completely responsible for your experience is to know that without a doubt, that the Law of attraction is at work at all times and in harmony with your Inner-Beings broader intentions.
It is operating whether you consciously participate or not.
In addition, the free will that is inherent in the human condition is unconditional. You are free to do anything, be anything, and believe anything in any way it pleases you.
The Law of attraction says that everything is energy and like energy attracts energy. Therefore, everything in your experience is always a vibrational match to your beliefs and thought-feelings, like it or not!
Free will is the right to experience the result of all your thought-feelings, words and actions so that you will be able to experience the results of your choices. When you’re feeling experience does not match your desire you are in the vibrational gap between where you are and where you want to be and you do not yet believe fully in your desire.
In order to have, you must first be a vibrational match. To change any experience that you do not want, you must take responsibility for what you’re currently vibrating (feeling/thinking/believing) which is not a match for what you are wanting.
Then you must choose to “feel” the essence of the way you want to feel now and to think the thoughts that trigger those feelings now. Your reality is never about someone else’s thoughts, words, actions etc. They are only a mirror of your current point of attraction as is your health and wealth.
You will ALWAYS be tested to remember to choose to feel the way you want to feel now and to really feel what it is you must live in the matching thoughts.
Let us say it is hard to actually feel healthy when there are so much disease and despair in your experience right now and you feel the lack of well-being. On the other hand, it is hard to feel wealthy when in your own experience there so much lack in your own bank account and you feel despair and you think poverty thoughts based on lack.
Is it the conditions of the environment you are in that made you feel this way? No! You are choosing to allow yourself to feel and think this way based on a backstory given to you long ago about disease and poverty and now you are a perfect vibrational match for the experience.
Law of Attraction always delivers that which you are a perfect vibrational match for, repeatedly, until you deliberately change the story. Do you control your thoughts and feelings or does your back-story and environment? You do! You make the choice.
You can choose to change any belief you have about anything and bring about change from any point in your current experience.
Accept your responsibility to choose how you think and feel at every moment. Your perception of your environment, wealth, health and quality of your relationships are always showing you exactly how you feel, think and believe to provide contrast so you can exercise choice, the choice of how you want to believe, think and feel in any given situation.
The choice to consciously lift your experience and connect to your broader perspective will always bring alignment with the essence of how you want to feel, from a vantage point you begin to vibrate with your inner being and all that you desire.
Your Greatest Gift Is Your Happiness
The greatest gift that you could ever give to another is your own happiness, for when you are in a state of joy, happiness or appreciation, you are fully connected to the stream of pure, positive Source Energy that is truly who you are.
When you are in that state of connection anything or anyone that you are holding as an object of attention benefits from your attention. No one else needs you to be or do things for them in order for them to be fulfilled, for all of them have the same access to the Stream of Well-Being that you do.
Often, others (who do not understand that they have access to the stream), suffer in their inability to hold themselves in a place of feeling good and ask you to behave in a way that they believe will make them feel better.
Not only do they hold you in a place of discomfort as they try to make you responsible for their joy, they hold themselves in a place of bondage as well. For they cannot control the way any other behaves and if that control is necessary for their happiness, then they truly are in trouble.
Your Happiness Does Not Depend on What Others Do.
Change is possible at any point in your experience. There is nothing too small or too big for the Law of Attraction and your inner being to deliver. Once you have taken full vibrational responsibility for where you are, you can with ease and grace move to the next best place.
It is the law and the promise of always staying connected to your core and moving from within! I am not saying that this process of change will always be easy but it will be deeply satisfying and get easier with practice.
Depending on where you are currently, it will take time and committed focus for change to happen. Therefore, start small and intend to see results and build your confidence with the process of change from this perspective.
Moreover, allow yourself to receive assistance with this process, this idea may initially seem impossible and experienced help will be beneficial in navigating the journey with you! Have fun with it!
Where are you and where do you want to be?
Have you seen the global positioning navigational systems that are available in vehicles today? An antenna on the roof of your vehicle sends a signal to satellites in the sky that identifies your current location.
Once you enter your desired destination into the keypad, the computer calculates the route between where you are and where you want to go.
The monitor informs you of the distance you have to travel and recommends the best route to get there and once you begin, the system will give you (by spoken word or text) specific directions to lead you to your new destination.
The navigational system never asks “where have you been”? it does not ask “why have you been there so long”? Its only mission is to assist you in getting from where you are, to where you want to be.
Your emotions provide a similar guidance system for you, for their primary function is also to help you travel the distance from where you are to where ever you want to be.
It is extremely important that you know where you are in relationship to where you want to be, in order to effectively move closer to where you want to be. An understanding of both where you are and where you want to be is essential if you are to make any deliberate decisions about your journey.
You are surrounded by many influences in your physical environment and often others ask or insist that you behave differently in order to positively affect their experience.
You are deluged with laws, rules and expectations that are imposed by others and almost everyone seems to have an opinion about how you should behave. It is not possible for you to stay on track between where you are and where you want to be if you are using those kinds of outside influences to guide you.
Often you are pulled this way and that, in an attempt to please another, only to discover that no matter how hard you try, you cannot consistently move in any pleasing direction and so you not only do not please them but you also do not please yourself.
Due to you being pulled in so many different directions, your path to where you want to be usually gets lost in the process.
Your Happiness does not depend on what others do but only upon your own vibrational balance. The happiness of others does not depend on you but only on their own vibrational balance, for the way anyone feels, at any moment, is only about their own mix of energies.
The way you feel is simply, clearly and always the indicator of the vibrational balance between your desires and your vibrational offering.
There is nothing in all of the Universe more important for anyone to understand than how the vibration they are offering is matching the vibrations of their desires and the way you feel is your indicator of whether you are allowing your connection to Source or not.
Every good feeling, every positive creation, all of your abundance, clarity, health, vitality and well-being and all the things that you consider to be good are dependent upon the way you are feeling right now and, on the relationship, that the feeling vibration has to the vibration of who you really are and what you really desire.
Each Thought Moves You Closer to or Further from Your Destination.
Just as it is easy for you to contemplate a successful trip from one city to another, it will be easy for you to contemplate a successful trip from financial insecurity for example, to financial security, from sickness to wellness, from confusion to clarity….
On your trip from one city to another, there will be no major unknowns, for you understand the distance between the two cities, you know where you are along the way and you understand what moving in the wrong direction means to your success.
Once you understand your own Emotional Guidance system, you will never again be confused about where you are in relationship to where you want to be. Also, you will feel with each thought that you offer, whether you are moving closer to, or further from your desired outcome.
If you are using any other influence as your source of guidance, you will get lost and go off track, for no others understand, as you do, the distance between where you are and where you want to be.
Even though others cannot understand your desires purely, they will still continually add their desires to the mix and so, only when you pay attention to the way you feel can you guide yourself steadily toward your own goals.
Why Does Saying No to It, Means Saying Yes?
Your vibrational Universe has the Law of Attraction as its basis. That means that your Universe is about inclusion. When you give your attention to something that you desire and you say yes to it, you are including it in your vibration.
When you look at something you do not want and you say no to it, you are also including it in your vibration. When you give no attention to it, you do not include it but you cannot exclude anything that you are giving your attention to because your attention to it includes it in your vibration, every time, without exception.